Shelly (named changed for her privacy) had never experienced having her own place. As an adult, she always lived with abusive partners. During good times they would enjoy each other’s company, laughing and getting high together. But during tough times Shelly lived in constant fear of being kicked out. She quickly learned to keep her partners satisfied and content. Unfortunately no matter how hard she tried it was never enough, and the threats of eviction escalated, even leading to physical violence. A year and a half ago Shelly made the decision to get clean and stop using substances to numb her pain. Once she was sober she realized the dysfunction in her relationship and chose to walk away.

 

While she stayed in touch with her partner and even contemplated returning several times in the early months, she eventually discovered C-U at Home’s Pathways to Progress Program. Being in the program didn’t always mean smooth progress; Shelly encountered setbacks along the way. However, in late August after being in the program a little more than a year, Shelly signed a lease for her very first independent place. She proudly declared, “No one can tell me whether I stay here. No one will ever evict me. This is my place.” Transitioning to living alone can be intimidating, which is why Shelly is now part of C-U at Home’s Extended Care Program where she will receive ongoing support during this new chapter of her life. Congratulations to Shelly on securing her first apartment!